Extreme kinks are a daunting thing to approach anyone about, especially true when it’s broaching the “hardsport” subject. I’m an incredibly meticulous person by nature and found it hard to find the right person who put me at ease as a first-timer and who also I genuinely felt shared a mutual interest in the fetish.
I came across Lady Scarlett’s website/twitter a good while ago and felt she was exactly the person I was looking for. I put out the feelers and asked when she would tour my part of the country. I was in for a wait but… It was well worth it. Communication was clear and concise from the beginning, polite and informative.
On meeting in person, I was immediately amazed by how welcoming a person Lady Scarlett is as well as how absolutely stunning she was. Lady Scarlett is a great judge of character and I feel assesses and adapts to each client and the services they seek effortlessly (she completely understood that I’m not 100% into the submissive or BDSM culture). You want soft and nurturing? She’s the lady. Something more authorative? She’s the goddess you need… We discussed interests and boundaries, if a safeword would be required (I opted out as I trusted she wouldn’t abuse my consent as she is very accommodating and respectful).
The session was fantastic, I won’t divulge too much as I feel it’s an experience worth trying for yourself and going in without knowing what to truly expect just makes the whole thing more exciting. I will say however that my favourite part was worshipping Lady Scarletts bottom and feeling that little treat at the tip of your tongue as it slowly edges it’s way out.
Our session is a memory I will cherish for a long time. Lady Scarlett helped me go further than what I would thought possible, pushed my limits where required but understood the situation and showed me mercy when those limits were reached. She is a lovely person who rewards those who treat her well, who know how to listen, please and most importantly… Obey. I wish her every success in the future and perhap’s we’ll meet again? – T
My session with Lady Scarlett was exceptional. Mistress was approachable / friendly and we spent some time discussing the specifics of the session, what equipment would be used, hard limits, and other information relating to the session. This for me is really important ; it’s not a question of the Slave “topping from the bottom” but a genuine consideration from Mistress that the session addressed wider goals.
We started with Anal work, with fingers, dildo and Strapon used to gently increase the commitment. This is no joke, but the anal performed was seriously the best that I have ever experienced, in terms of the degree of consideration / understanding that was applied and the targeting of specific zones to maximise pleasure. It was completely mind-blowing…!
We finished with some intimate body worship and mistress provided a very enjoyable perspective for me to serve..!
Throughout the session I was intoxicated with Poppers and Nitrous, which was carefully monitored to keep me in the zone to serve mistress and keeping me compliant and open to her whims.
We are discussing meeting again very soon for a full Hardsports session. If this is anything like the session that we had today, it will be out of this world …!
“Getting the opportunity to visit Lady Scarlett has been an incredible experience – easily one of the most thrilling of my young life. As soon as I made initial contact with her via email I was struck by her politeness, professional manner and eagerness to meet. Naturally feeling shy by communicating with such a powerful, confident woman I requested a pre-session conversation where we would discuss my previous experience, preferences and generally get to know one another. I would highly recommend this to anyone who is remotely nervous about seeing Lady Scarlett as she puts you at ease so effortlessly and quickly.
Having agreed a time and date, we met at The Peacock Parlour – an incredibly equipped dungeon in a lovely, relaxed area of London. I was greeted by Lady Scarlett as soon as I entered her lair with her favourite Lanson Black Label Champagne and she was amazing with me from the get-go. I felt like she really listened to what I had to say while at the same time made it very clear that she was the boss and that I was going to be her play-thing for 90 minutes. Our session comprised of a seductive, kidnap role-play scenario which involved lots of duct tape, leather and rope. Photographs were also taken to reinforce her dominance before I was pegged and made to worship Lady Scarlett’s strap-on.
Our time together slightly over-ran but this did not seem to bother her one bit which did not go unnoticed. As soon as our session ended I was treated to a shower and a comforting chat about how our meeting went. Lady Scarlett also went to the bother of checking up on me the next day to make sure that I was doing okay which was another nice surprise.
If you are looking for a beautiful, domineering, friendly, kind and seductive Mistress to guide you through your BDSM desires you certainly won’t be disappointed with Lady Scarlett!”
Its hard to describe just what an experience it is to visit Lady Scarlett. It feels almost futile, and I would say just pluck up the courage and go and see her, however thats a bit unfair so I will attempt to describe ho amazing a session with her is.
The first thing you will notice from Lady Scarlett is how kind she is when you first meet her (warning: enjoy this whilst you can, it will change.). As in her email exchanges she was polite and courteous, and very interested to know my kink history and experiences, especially as in my session I wanted to push boundaries in regards to kinks i had explored with other Mistresses. There was no rush to this, and though still obiously feeling due to what was to come, I felt much more at ease after being able to talk so candidly about any fetishes I had, with somebody who showed a genuine interest in me and my experiences with them. It also helps that Lady Scarlett has one of the most amazing voices, which really comes into its own once in session, she just has a way of speaking that instantly disarms you and makes you feel like the inferior that you are. You really do feel genuinely helpless when Lady Scarlett wants you to, and she ALWAYS pays attention to what you say, NEVER say anything and dont expect it to be used against you, im still suffering to this day with it, and despite knowing this am still getting myself in to trouble. (This is why her disarming voice, and charming personality are so dangerous!)
I wont go into the sessions we have shared specifically, but its safe to say they have all been intense from the get go. Lady Scarlett is skilled at mindgames, putting you in whatever position she wants you to be; whether that be calm and completely in her thrall, or nervous and on edge, wondering what she is going to do next and psychologically at her mercy. Mistress pushed me to do things I had worried about doing previously, and never achieved, yet under her tutelage I have pushed through and gone further with it than i thought I could, yet she is never happy with that. Already as soon as I broke through one self created limit, Mistress has her sights set on breaking through others. Indeed, I am now questioning even my hardest of limits, because I trust that she will know when I am at the stage that I can break through these, and I want to give them to her, I want to give every piece of me to her.
To end with then all i can say is this. If you want a genuinely wondeful, kind, thoughtful Mistress, who when its time to session will take over your mind, bend you to her will, take you to places you never thought you could go, and change you permanently for the better, you owe it to yourself to visit Lady Scarlett. Then you too can experience the feeling of walking out of her chambers, and into the sun, drunk on submission.
I must confess that Lady Scarlett is definitely one of the most attentive mistress that I have ever met. Our initial conversations prior to our session together really gave me a chance to express what kind of interests I had and what my limits were. It also gave me a chance to express a deep fantasy that I have had for a long time. Little did I know that Lady Scarlett was taking great interest in everything that I had to say. She well and truly catered the session to my (and her) likes and sprung my fantasy on me towards the end of the session when she truly fried my cock with electrics disregarding my cries for her to stop!
I highly recommend this skilled, versatile and playful mistress to anyone who is considering a session with her. She is sublime!
Deferred gratification, not something I have ever been that adept at. Some can make their Christmas chocolate last until Easter looms. Mine never lasted to see the new year. But I have had to learn to be a little patient in spending time in the company of the very lovely Lady Scarlett.
When I first approached her about a session in early April that with all the hurdles I had in between we wouldn’t be able to actually get together until May. This seemed a drag, but turned out to have its own silver lining, as I spent much time in the interim dreaming sweet dreams about what might come to pass.
So, by the time today came around I had played just about every possible scenario round and round in my head a dozen times and was vibrating with anticipation. Our session was to be in the new but increasingly cult venue, the Peacock Parlour in North London. The instruction ‘to go through the blue gate and then call me’ had a pleasingly mysterious air to it. What’s behind the blue gate? Through a grey door then down a long corridor to the end, and through an open door, into the Parlour, where my Lady was waiting. I had stepped out of London into another place entirely.
The internet is a wonderful thing and allows us to know a little more of the person before the session. However, I have found that the person one meets for real is always a little different from the image one has projected on them. Lady Scarlett’s strong, sensual curvy body, dressed in black was as the pictures told me. But along with this came a smile that sparkled, and smile of delight and a sense of humour that showcased both wit and sadism.
As I said to her, it took me a long time to get over myself and accept the kinky man that I am but having made that journey I have thoroughly enjoyed exploring different aspects of my fetishes. What I was looking for with Lady Scarlett, and she had with great enthusiasm agreed to, was bringing two strands together.
Underpinning all of this was of course the joy of submission, placing myself in this woman’s strong and clever hands. I have had some lovely sensual sessions, and some equally thrilling CP/Disciplinary sessions. Today I wanted to bring both strands together, in a session that would start as disciplinary role play, moving into something more sensual, if exquisitely humiliating.
She is waiting for me in the dungeon space. The moment when weeks of fantasy and mental images becomes a reality. This is the trapeze artist moment of any first session between a sub and Domme. One can read a menu of delights, and as Claire Black once noted ‘get carried away with the pretty pictures.’ But this is the moment of truth, does this thing fly, or remain earth bound. There is a sweet spot, one wants one’s desires and dreams realised, but also one want spontinaity and surprise, and above all one wants it to flow, to wash one along on a beautiful wave. Oh, Lady Scarlett I place myself in your hands.
The moment she comes towards me, and speaks I know it’s going to be great. She exudes the natural confidence of somebody who knows who they are and knows that they are fabulous. Her voice, scolding pulls me into my fantasy space. In no time I am naked before her, as scolds and casts a sharply critical eye over me. I love verbal humiliation, especially in a nice domestic discipline setting and Lady Scarlett’s tongue was plenty sharp enough.
Bent over for a spanking, oh god I love to be spanked, between her body comes close, her warm breath on my cheek, scolding, mocking. My body, my tiny inadequate cock, my disgust desires all pulled apart. And then oh, yes, the thing I asked for but…. To have been as kinky as I am, and to have reached the age I have without experiencing arse play is probably some kind of achievement. I have experimented with figging (oh lordy, what an experience that was) but never been plugged up. Now bent over ‘hold your arse cheeks apart’ she orders. ‘My you do have a tight little arsehole.’ And then she slides it home. Wow, oh yes. ‘Don’t you dare let it come out!’ This warning hangs over the rest of our session.
I am bent over a spanking frame, my plugged arse on display and she spanks me, and derides what remains of my macho pride. And there is nowhere in the world I would rather be, she has brought me perfectly into her world. ‘Don’t you dare let it come out.’
And then the watershed, a wonderful pause to reflect in the corner, and we move from discipline to beautiful sensual submission. My bottom is spanked again, but now lying face down on the bed, I can feel her presence, then her body is on me, I can feel her lying on top of me, her voice like honey and spice. She feels so sensual and just so powerful. This isn’t a game or role play, this feels real, my emotions are real, rising in me. And then a wonderful gift and a reminder of who is in charge, and how she can enjoy my frailty. Her face close to mine, ‘With that tiny cock you are going to have to learn to use our hands and you tongue, such a pretty mouth, can you imagine it sucking cock?’ She continues, ‘If I told you to, would you do it for me?’ Her face so close to me, her warmth so near to me.
‘Have you been good enough to worship my bottom? Beg for it, beg more.’ And then my dreams are realised, she kneels and rolls down her fishnets and knickers to reveal a truly wonderful bottom and alter at which I could worship forever. I bury my face between her cheeks, my tongue reaching for that sweet hole. It is hard to escape cliché as a describe what I felt in that moment. And I could see, beautifully pierced the thing that I would so love to have kissed and sucked but will never be allowed to do, the arsehole is my place in life, that is the hole I get to serve.
‘Do you expect to come.’ ‘If you wish it.’ ‘You can come, but you have to cum in your sock, and I will laugh thinking about you going home with you sock covered in cum.’ Maybe this moment sums up the glory of this session, Lady Scarlett’s dominance, sensuality and evil humour all coming together in that moment.
I’ve faced that I will not be able to write a review that will do justice to my time with Lady Scarlett, but I’m doing it anyway.
I had been communicating with Lady Scarlett for over 6 months when we finally got to meet (I had some trips cancelled, etc). I was coming from across the pond and just had an instinctual pull towards her, so I rearranged everything to get me to London.
I’m so glad I did.
I’ve had a pretty good amount of experience in almost 30 years visiting Dommes. Lady Scarlett stands out among those experiences. I don’t know if I can point to one element of my session with her that makes me think that, though. It’s the culmination of all she is: her absolutely gorgeous face, the eyes you literally fall into, her beautiful ivory skin and her voluptuous Real Woman Body, her laugh, her brain; all play a part. But it’s what she does with all of those things. I believe she is one of the most truly Dominant Women I’ve ever had the pleasure to be around.
She is also one of the nicest, the sweetest, the funniest (and yes, the most gorgeous) women I have also had the pleasure to be around. That’s why I believe her to be an Artist at what she does because she absolutely lets the moment create itself. She knows what you want, and after about 30 seconds of talking to you, she knows what makes your sub self tick. Personally, I like that she has very few limits, because that heightens the sense that ANYTHING could happen. If you love to live in that tension between what she does and what she will do, you will LOVE serving her. I took more pain from her that I have ever been able to take, and she showed me something I had not really thought to ask for but which changed what I now feel I am “into” (hint: it has to do with how being violated anally can be more pleasurable than painful). I discovered more about myself by serving her.
If you want a Mistress who ticks boxes off a checklist, I do not recommend Lady Scarlett. If you want to give yourself over to someone who will respect and broaden your inklings, and who will truly PLAY with you, I can’t recommend her highly enough.”
I’d tried a few times to arrange a session with Lady Scarlett over the Christmas period but was caught out with work schedules. I’d paid a deposit as all genuine bookings should and although rightfully frustrated at not being able to paint her sadism on a fresh canvas she was understanding and patient. The door was left ajar.
Having not sessioned with a Domme for 9 years or so I was determined to choose the right one to dip my toes back into the swirl. It didn’t take me long for as soon as I saw her website and read a few entries on her Twitter feed I was struck by the sense of soul. I mean the term ‘soul’ as a depth of appreciation for what and why we are drawn into these waters, both as Dominant and submissive.
I have always kept an eye on the evolution of BDSM within our culture and within the past few years it has appeared cloudy. The rise of the bedroom findoms, fifty shades of grey and its steady trajectory into the mainstream amongst other things. Some Dommes redefine the art and Lady Scarlett is certainly one of those Dommes.
I won’t elaborate too much on my first session which was breathtaking to say the least but I will say this. The overiding feeling of being empowered on so many levels did not leave my conciousness for days on end. The whole experience has enriched my thinking. It is with precious hindsight though that the most revealing and telling aspect of the session happened as soon as I sat down for a chat with Lady Scarlett.
In those first 5 minutes the scene was set. Lady Scarlett told me how things would be without spelling it out. It wasn’t a lecture or a manifesto. It hit me a few hours later. In effect the initial conversation effortlessly lay out the parameters of her control which when under her whims seem endless but are hers.
Whether she is whispering softly in your ear whilst pushing your thresholds or laughing at your discomfort, you have been told. There is no other option once you choose to submit to this Lady.
A gorgeously cruel soulful Domme.
I had a fantastic first session with Lady Scarlett. We exchanged emails about what the session could involve, and despite the testimonials and Her reassuring social media presence, I was nervous. From the off I was put at ease; LS is is clearly into what She does, She is authentic, empathetic, intuitive, calm, and very very kinked. I was at ease very quickly, and we began….
As the scene unfolded I felt the familiar nerves build as we approached time for anal play – recent experiences have not been good, and I have had to call a halt as it was painful. LS took the time to warm me up, and when She was inside me, it was just as it should be – amazing, and painless. Having said that, I am sure She would make it uncomfortable if that is what was required for a session. It is probably worth mentioning that at this point I had a shit covered gusset over my nose, and a shit covered finger in my mouth, so I was already very very aroused! Her eyes locked on mine as She fucked me, and I could see that She was in the moment with me, which makes all the difference.
When I left the dungeon I had that floaty feeling that comes from being fucked and used by someone who gets your kinks and cares about sharing something special with Her clients. LS makes a real connection, and there are no airs and graces – just a genuine Domme who loves what She does and does it with flair and artistry!
If you are a complete newbie like i was and are looking to start your journey in to this world then I can not recommended Lady Scarlett highly enough. She is an absolute professional, putting any anxiety or nerves you may have at ease and thus allowing you to fully enjoy your time together.
From the moment I contacted her with my idea of a role play and what activities I would like to try, to the end of the session where we sat down and she talked to me about what feelings i might experience in the coming hours or days, it was nothing but wonderful. A lady of her word she also contacted me the next day to check up on how I was feeling.
The only down side was that two hours seemed to race by all to quickly and I would have loved to have stayed longer.
Let Lady Scarlett take your hand and lead you in to that place you fantasize about and trust me you will not regret a second.