International Femdom Summit – Bucharest 19-21 April 2023

If you follow me on Twitter you will know that I recently attended the International Femdom Summit in Bucharest, Romania. The summit was such an enjoyable and rewarding event that I needed to tell you what I got up to during my stay. Not to mention I haven’t blogged in a long time.

This year was the inaugural Summit and was created by Mistress Ezada Sinn and Mistress Kennya. They wanted to organise an event where international Mistresses could network and build contacts, share experiences and just generally be Our wonderful selves.

http://www.femdomsummit.com

What can I say; the event delivered on all of this and more. I had high hopes attending, having reviewed the proposed programme, that there would be plenty of opportunities to really get to know people properly. This certainly happened and Mistress Ezada and Mistress Kennya struck the right balance with informal/formal with numerous opportunities to make connections, such as the day outing to Bran and Peles Castle, the lunchtime meet and greet, dinner and the more formal evening awards ceremony. At the time of the award ceremony we were all great friends and there was a nice sense of community and understanding. It was really refreshing to be among so many likeminded Women, from all over the world. Yes We did go wild at the afterparty but what happens at a Femdom afterparty stays at a Femdom afterparty; unless some of it is caught on film!

The Summit benefitted from not being too much of a whirlwind where you are rushing from thing to thing. There was time within schedule to enjoy the city and plan other activities with people you had met. The other big plus was a non restrictive dress code. This very much meant that We could be ourselves, not dressed in head to toe latex etc all the time. Which although I obviously enjoy it can sometime be restrictive in terms of comfort.

I loved every aspect of the event and even had chance to have a conversation over coffee with Mistress Sarah Dom for Her new YouTube channel. Its one you will not want to miss. We had a fabulous chat about ME and really getting to know who I am and what I am about. The channel is launching soon so keep an eye out.

At the Awards Ceremony on the final night I was surprised to be given an award. This now has pride of place in my playroom. Can you guess what it was for?



I had a fantastic time meeting and getting to know some amazing Women from all over the world and have plans to meet up with a number of them soon. Without the Summit this would have never happened.

I am grateful to Mistress Ezada and Mistress Kennya for creating and organising this event. So much time and work goes on behind the scenes to deliver the finished product. It really is a labour of love which they pulled off impeccably.

I cannot wait for next year and hope to see some old and new faces there. I will definitely return to Bucharest before then though to enjoy more of such a beautiful and fascinating city. 

LS

Links:

https://femdomsummit.com/

https://twitter.com/FemdomSummit

https://twitter.com/MSarahDom

https://twitter.com/Mistress_Ezada

https://twitter.com/KennyaMistress

 

Hardsports Session Review – J

Hardsports Session Review – Jake
I had been thinking about trying hardsports for several years now and decided it was finally time to go for it. After some careful research, I contacted Lady Scarlett to enquire about her availability and whether she would be willing to see me. Having never visited a mistress before, I was initially a bit nervous. But Lady Scarlett’s first reply to my enquiry was already enough to make me feel relaxed and at ease. We discussed the session and what my main aim was, and set the time and date. On the day, getting to the location was easy.
The session started with a lovely chat where any residual nerves I may have had quickly disappeared. I won’t go into detail about the session, but I will say it was absolutely wonderful and I will treasure the memory for years. I got to explore a secret fantasy and feel proud about every aspect of it.
I fully recommend visiting Lady Scarlett. It was a real privilege and I am already looking forward to next time. Thank you mistress.

Double session/filming review

So a few days ago now I joined the Lady Scarlett and Madam Cruella for a filming session.

I was very excited, but at the same time terrified as I had not served 2 beautiful goddesses before and I had never been professionally filmed for an online audience.

I instantly felt at ease when I entered as I could see how well LS and MC bounce of each other and really like to have fun and enjoy themselves.

I also felt nervous about being filmed with another slave in session with us, but Tink was a great guy and made me feel comfortable.

So the filming for me was an anal play session, and boy do these ladies know what they are doing!!

I was offered a quick warm up 1st before the filming began by MC which quickly turned into a fist warm up as I’m quite a slut or as MC called me “sloppy bucket cunt”

Once I was suitably opened to mistresses standards MC informed LS that the hole was ready, and so the fun/destruction began.

The 1st part was just a good stretching and some deep up to the elbow fisting.
LS and MC took turns with my hole and thoroughly enjoyed it evilly laughing throughout.

2nd part Lady Scarlett and Madam Cruella covered their beautiful feet with condoms and began to stretch out my hole ever wider.
It felt amazing as the Mistresses easily slipped their whole feet in and out of my slippery bum.
At one stage LS nearly popped the whole foot in past her heel I was just a little short.

Part 3 was all about the large toys LS tooled herself up with the massive “Dick Rambone” cock and MC had an enormous “Slink” toy
MC started of slipping in the Slink which seemed to never end I could feel it go through into my colon and just keep going.
Once I thought I had been thoroughly abused LS stepped forward with her monster cock and went straight in. A nice deep, long, no messing invasive ass fucking.

I honestly thought I was done the filming had finished but my beautiful and devilish Mistresses had not quite finished with me.

I was suitably placed back on all fours, bagged and poppered up.
The wrecking began, huge expanded fists started entering me deeper and harder than anything I’d taken before. It was brutal but I was in total heaven as they both stepped aside every now and then to take turns to see how much more I could handle, although eventually I had to beg for mercy.

Without any doubt the best experience of my life, getting to serve, please and get totally wrecked by 2 of the best Mistresses around. They both looked totally stunning.

I was offered some time out, a shower and a drink.

It’s so refreshing that these ladies are totally lifestyle and enjoy what they are doing. Nothing scripted or acted. We laughed throughout and had such a great day

I can’t thank Lady Scarlett and Madam Cruella enough.

(Me and the thing pictured above)

(more…)

Hardsports Session Review – T

Extreme kinks are a daunting thing to approach anyone about, especially true when it’s broaching the “hardsport” subject. I’m an incredibly meticulous person by nature and found it hard to find the right person who put me at ease as a first-timer and who also I genuinely felt shared a mutual interest in the fetish.

I came across Lady Scarlett’s website/twitter a good while ago and felt she was exactly the person I was looking for. I put out the feelers and asked when she would tour my part of the country. I was in for a wait but… It was well worth it. Communication was clear and concise from the beginning, polite and informative.

On meeting in person, I was immediately amazed by how welcoming a person Lady Scarlett is as well as how absolutely stunning she was. Lady Scarlett is a great judge of character and I feel assesses and adapts to each client and the services they seek effortlessly (she completely understood that I’m not 100% into the submissive or BDSM culture). You want soft and nurturing? She’s the lady. Something more authorative? She’s the goddess you need… We discussed interests and boundaries, if a safeword would be required (I opted out as I trusted she wouldn’t abuse my consent as she is very accommodating and respectful).

The session was fantastic, I won’t divulge too much as I feel it’s an experience worth trying for yourself and going in without knowing what to truly expect just makes the whole thing more exciting. I will say however that my favourite part was worshipping Lady Scarletts bottom and feeling that little treat at the tip of your tongue as it slowly edges it’s way out.

 Our session is a memory I will cherish for a long time. Lady Scarlett helped me go further than what I would thought possible, pushed my limits where required but understood the situation and showed me mercy when those limits were reached. She is a lovely person who rewards those who treat her well, who know how to listen, please and most importantly… Obey. I wish her every success in the future and perhap’s we’ll meet again? – T

What Happens in a Hardsports Session

I always tend to get a lot of questions on this matter so to help you I thought I would put together this handy blog.

For a sub’s view I suggest reading the following by Scarlett’s flower.

https://scarlettsflower.wordpress.com/2018/12/07/shit-happens/

So what happens in a Hardsports session? Well it’s much like any other session but it involves poo. No two sessions are the same and people have different levels as to what they can take. I get novices undertaking their first foray after many days and nights of fantasising, and hardened veterans who have seen and done it all when it comes to poo. 

Before a session we will fully discuss which of the two you are and what ultimately your goal is. You might want to consume for the first time, having tried and failed many times before. You might want to just get dirty and enjoy the sensation of my waste on you. I don’t go into full descriptive detail before a deposit is paid unless you pay my consult fee though. Unfortunately many of you want to jerk off at the thought and then not book. But I understand if you are a novice then you are approaching the situation with some trepidation and need some reassurance. 

Here are some handy FAQs:

Is it safe/healthy? 

Well a lot of fetish activities are not safe. Breathplay, needle play etc. There’s a risk and it’s the same with HS. Especially if you’re consuming. If you consume from someone there is a chance, if they have something in terms of a virus etc, that it can be passed on. There is also a risk if there is blood in the feaces that it is passed to you which also means a chance of contracting anything they might have. You also need to make me aware of any allergies you have. If I’ve ingested something you are allergic to it could exacerbate this. 

How do you prepare?

Well I have a normal healthy diet. So that doesn’t change. I don’t drink heavily the day before a HS session and won’t take any painkillers. If I’m feeling unwell then I will postpone the session. I don’t use laxatives or anything else to prompt me to go. Everything that happens in session is part of the natural process. 

How does a sub prepare?

Well it’s probably best not to eat a large meal beforehand as there is a chance you might throw up or at least gag/retch. 

Forget what you’ve seen in porn etc. It often doesn’t happen like that or if so those slaves have been training for years.

You could consider playing with or trying your own to see what it’s like. But I understand most people only have an interest in consuming the gift from a Mistress. 

What if I throw up?

Well it’s really a mind over matter thing. It’s shit. It does taste disgusting but it depends how strong your need is to consume and please me. To date no one in a session has vomited. (Well not a pro session anyway.) Maybe that’s because I threaten that you’ll have to consume that too. 

Can you force me?

I can. And sometimes this is necessary to get you over the mental hurdle of consuming poo. But I also have to ensure that I don’t push you to a point where it’s going to be psychological damaging. Same as any no limits, no safe word, consensual non consent type session. I have to use my best judgement as to where and when to draw the line. When you can be pushed and when you need to stop. I know I’ve taken many people further than they thought was possible. I’m not going to give you full details on my forcing methods until you book and pay a deposit. 

Do I have to eat it?

Ultimately I love it when you do consume some as then you take away a piece of me following our session. But it’s not necessary. I like to smear it and play with it. Use it in strapon fucking, sniffing and smelling etc. 

Do you store it?

Generally no. Everything is delivered fresh in session so you know it’s directly from me and not someone else. I sometimes get requests for more than one load and therefore storage is necessary. These will always be from me. 

What’s your favourite way to deliver HS?

Any and every way. I love to sit above you and deliver directly into your mouth or on your body. But I do particularly enjoy mixing scat and food play. 

Can I clean you after? 

If you have done particularly well then you may be rewarded with that privilege. 

Will I smell after?

Well you’ll have the opportunity to shower and brush your teeth. So there should be no danger on this score. You might just imagine you smell. 

If you want to discuss a session in greater depth before committing please book a phone consult. These are offered at £20 for 10 minutes. 

Out Without the Old in With the New

Well 2018 was a rip roaring year with plenty of fun, frolics and debauchery. Lots of highlights and thankfully not many lows. 

A lot of time was spent training and developing Max. He suffered extended beatings and canings, lots of needles in sensitive places, staples, and his first forced bi sucking and fucking sessions. He got worked hardest anally though and I can now get much more in him (most of my forearm) with more to come. Although I really need to stop getting drenched in piss cum.

I met and sessioned with some glorious ladies. My shitster and I Madam Cruella had some great scat sessions. Including a fabulous foursome with Lady Andromeda and Mistress Manouche. Sir Claire Black and I played mean girls and tied someone to a pole then taped them head to toe. Irish Mistress Lucy and I covered pretty much every fetish going in our Ireland sessions. We had such great fun particularly abusing her slave Boot. Mistress Number One and I skewered some balls in Copenhagen and revelled in the blood produced. There were some great soirées and lots of fisting.

I started filming, although I still have to edit and upload. There will be more solo and double etc filming dates advertised soon.

I also did a fair amount of touring with more to come. 2018 saw sessions in Copenhagen, Belfast, Cork, Edinburgh, Glasgow, Paris.

I have set dates for a return to Ireland already. 1 to 8 February. Several HS sessions are already booked up so if you’re interested contact me ASAP. I am also considering which other locations to visit. 

I spent lots of time in the dungeon, mostly the amazing Peacock Parlour, with Max and Flower and some fabulous new and regular clients. I was lucky enough to have a number of longer sessions which I truly relish. I never run out of ideas and time never drags. 

Scarlett’s flower started working toward ownership. Lots of ups and downs there but she has persevered. Things are going to get harder and I will be more demanding in 2019.

That stands for everyone coming to session with me. The end of 2018 saw me develop a more steely determination to achieve goals and drive forward. Max is definitely going to be in trouble. 

So what does 2019 hold. Lots and lots more scat. I’ve done a lot of online sessions lately which are great fun but feeding more hungry mouths is my goal. My shitster and I are offering special double HS sessions in Jan. £300 for one hour which is an unmissable opportunity. 

Max faces lots more anal annihilation, longer more taxing sessions where he gets pushed, significant enforced feminisation and forced bi including a trip to Hardon. He will hate all of this but love his deepening submission and my growing control. 

Flower faces continued chastity and orgasm denial, further anal training and forced bi. Not to mention more stringent requirements as she works toward ownership. 

I hope to tour new places and meet and reconnect with a number of other fabulous Dommes. I would love to have less timewaster’s this year and am looking forward to catching up with a number of clients and welcoming new ones. 

I will also be celebrating an important birthday this year. All year. So don’t hesitate to send gifts etc 🙂 

Happy New Year everyone. 

Testimonial – BJ

My session with Lady Scarlett was exceptional. Mistress was approachable / friendly and we spent some time discussing the specifics of the session, what equipment would be used, hard limits, and other information relating to the session. This for me is really important ; it’s not a question of the Slave “topping from the bottom” but a genuine consideration from Mistress that the session addressed wider goals.

We started with Anal work, with fingers, dildo and Strapon used to gently increase the commitment. This is no joke, but the anal performed was seriously the best that I have ever experienced, in terms of the degree of consideration / understanding that was applied and the targeting of specific zones to maximise pleasure. It was completely mind-blowing…!

We finished with some intimate body worship and mistress provided a very enjoyable perspective for me to serve..!

Throughout the session I was intoxicated with Poppers and Nitrous, which was carefully monitored to keep me in the zone to serve mistress and keeping me compliant and open to her whims.

We are discussing meeting again very soon for a full Hardsports session. If this is anything like the session that we had today, it will be out of this world …!

Testimonial – A

“Getting the opportunity to visit Lady Scarlett has been an incredible experience – easily one of the most thrilling of my young life. As soon as I made initial contact with her via email I was struck by her politeness, professional manner and eagerness to meet. Naturally feeling shy by communicating with such a powerful, confident woman I requested a pre-session conversation where we would discuss my previous experience, preferences and generally get to know one another. I would highly recommend this to anyone who is remotely nervous about seeing Lady Scarlett as she puts you at ease so effortlessly and quickly.

Having agreed a time and date, we met at The Peacock Parlour – an incredibly equipped dungeon in a lovely, relaxed area of London. I was greeted by Lady Scarlett as soon as I entered her lair with her favourite Lanson Black Label Champagne and she was amazing with me from the get-go. I felt like she really listened to what I had to say while at the same time made it very clear that she was the boss and that I was going to be her play-thing for 90 minutes. Our session comprised of a seductive, kidnap role-play scenario which involved lots of duct tape, leather and rope. Photographs were also taken to reinforce her dominance before I was pegged and made to worship Lady Scarlett’s strap-on.

Our time together slightly over-ran but this did not seem to bother her one bit which did not go unnoticed. As soon as our session ended I was treated to a shower and a comforting chat about how our meeting went. Lady Scarlett also went to the bother of checking up on me the next day to make sure that I was doing okay which was another nice surprise.

If you are looking for a beautiful, domineering, friendly, kind and seductive Mistress to guide you through your BDSM desires you certainly won’t be disappointed with Lady Scarlett!”