Hardsports Session Review – T

Extreme kinks are a daunting thing to approach anyone about, especially true when it’s broaching the “hardsport” subject. I’m an incredibly meticulous person by nature and found it hard to find the right person who put me at ease as a first-timer and who also I genuinely felt shared a mutual interest in the fetish.

I came across Lady Scarlett’s website/twitter a good while ago and felt she was exactly the person I was looking for. I put out the feelers and asked when she would tour my part of the country. I was in for a wait but… It was well worth it. Communication was clear and concise from the beginning, polite and informative.

On meeting in person, I was immediately amazed by how welcoming a person Lady Scarlett is as well as how absolutely stunning she was. Lady Scarlett is a great judge of character and I feel assesses and adapts to each client and the services they seek effortlessly (she completely understood that I’m not 100% into the submissive or BDSM culture). You want soft and nurturing? She’s the lady. Something more authorative? She’s the goddess you need… We discussed interests and boundaries, if a safeword would be required (I opted out as I trusted she wouldn’t abuse my consent as she is very accommodating and respectful).

The session was fantastic, I won’t divulge too much as I feel it’s an experience worth trying for yourself and going in without knowing what to truly expect just makes the whole thing more exciting. I will say however that my favourite part was worshipping Lady Scarletts bottom and feeling that little treat at the tip of your tongue as it slowly edges it’s way out.

 Our session is a memory I will cherish for a long time. Lady Scarlett helped me go further than what I would thought possible, pushed my limits where required but understood the situation and showed me mercy when those limits were reached. She is a lovely person who rewards those who treat her well, who know how to listen, please and most importantly… Obey. I wish her every success in the future and perhap’s we’ll meet again? – T

What Happens in a Hardsports Session

I always tend to get a lot of questions on this matter so to help you I thought I would put together this handy blog.

For a sub’s view I suggest reading the following by Scarlett’s flower.

https://scarlettsflower.wordpress.com/2018/12/07/shit-happens/

So what happens in a Hardsports session? Well it’s much like any other session but it involves poo. No two sessions are the same and people have different levels as to what they can take. I get novices undertaking their first foray after many days and nights of fantasising, and hardened veterans who have seen and done it all when it comes to poo. 

Before a session we will fully discuss which of the two you are and what ultimately your goal is. You might want to consume for the first time, having tried and failed many times before. You might want to just get dirty and enjoy the sensation of my waste on you. I don’t go into full descriptive detail before a deposit is paid unless you pay my consult fee though. Unfortunately many of you want to jerk off at the thought and then not book. But I understand if you are a novice then you are approaching the situation with some trepidation and need some reassurance. 

Here are some handy FAQs:

Is it safe/healthy? 

Well a lot of fetish activities are not safe. Breathplay, needle play etc. There’s a risk and it’s the same with HS. Especially if you’re consuming. If you consume from someone there is a chance, if they have something in terms of a virus etc, that it can be passed on. There is also a risk if there is blood in the feaces that it is passed to you which also means a chance of contracting anything they might have. You also need to make me aware of any allergies you have. If I’ve ingested something you are allergic to it could exacerbate this. 

How do you prepare?

Well I have a normal healthy diet. So that doesn’t change. I don’t drink heavily the day before a HS session and won’t take any painkillers. If I’m feeling unwell then I will postpone the session. I don’t use laxatives or anything else to prompt me to go. Everything that happens in session is part of the natural process. 

How does a sub prepare?

Well it’s probably best not to eat a large meal beforehand as there is a chance you might throw up or at least gag/retch. 

Forget what you’ve seen in porn etc. It often doesn’t happen like that or if so those slaves have been training for years.

You could consider playing with or trying your own to see what it’s like. But I understand most people only have an interest in consuming the gift from a Mistress. 

What if I throw up?

Well it’s really a mind over matter thing. It’s shit. It does taste disgusting but it depends how strong your need is to consume and please me. To date no one in a session has vomited. (Well not a pro session anyway.) Maybe that’s because I threaten that you’ll have to consume that too. 

Can you force me?

I can. And sometimes this is necessary to get you over the mental hurdle of consuming poo. But I also have to ensure that I don’t push you to a point where it’s going to be psychological damaging. Same as any no limits, no safe word, consensual non consent type session. I have to use my best judgement as to where and when to draw the line. When you can be pushed and when you need to stop. I know I’ve taken many people further than they thought was possible. I’m not going to give you full details on my forcing methods until you book and pay a deposit. 

Do I have to eat it?

Ultimately I love it when you do consume some as then you take away a piece of me following our session. But it’s not necessary. I like to smear it and play with it. Use it in strapon fucking, sniffing and smelling etc. 

Do you store it?

Generally no. Everything is delivered fresh in session so you know it’s directly from me and not someone else. I sometimes get requests for more than one load and therefore storage is necessary. These will always be from me. 

What’s your favourite way to deliver HS?

Any and every way. I love to sit above you and deliver directly into your mouth or on your body. But I do particularly enjoy mixing scat and food play. 

Can I clean you after? 

If you have done particularly well then you may be rewarded with that privilege. 

Will I smell after?

Well you’ll have the opportunity to shower and brush your teeth. So there should be no danger on this score. You might just imagine you smell. 

If you want to discuss a session in greater depth before committing please book a phone consult. These are offered at £20 for 10 minutes. 

January 2019 Double Hardsports Sessions

So you will hopefully have seen from Twitter that my shitster, Madam Cruella, and I are offering reduced price double hard sports sessions for the month of January. 

We were lucky enough to have a number of double scat sessions last year which were just so much fun. We want to start the year off with a bang, and a poo. We both just simply love this type of play and can come up with some very ingenious ideas to get you to eat a tasty breakfast. Croissants will just never be the same. 

If you’re worried that it’s your first time then we can also cater for newbies and aren’t too scary. If you need to be forced to swallow then we can also go down the brutal route. 

One hour of double the trouble and London’s finest shit is being offered for £300. If of course you’d like to take longer to savour your meal and incorporate other activities then this can also be arranged. 

Email serveladyscarlett@gmail.com to book. A deposit will be required for all bookings.

Out Without the Old in With the New

Well 2018 was a rip roaring year with plenty of fun, frolics and debauchery. Lots of highlights and thankfully not many lows. 

A lot of time was spent training and developing Max. He suffered extended beatings and canings, lots of needles in sensitive places, staples, and his first forced bi sucking and fucking sessions. He got worked hardest anally though and I can now get much more in him (most of my forearm) with more to come. Although I really need to stop getting drenched in piss cum.

I met and sessioned with some glorious ladies. My shitster and I Madam Cruella had some great scat sessions. Including a fabulous foursome with Lady Andromeda and Mistress Manouche. Sir Claire Black and I played mean girls and tied someone to a pole then taped them head to toe. Irish Mistress Lucy and I covered pretty much every fetish going in our Ireland sessions. We had such great fun particularly abusing her slave Boot. Mistress Number One and I skewered some balls in Copenhagen and revelled in the blood produced. There were some great soirées and lots of fisting.

I started filming, although I still have to edit and upload. There will be more solo and double etc filming dates advertised soon.

I also did a fair amount of touring with more to come. 2018 saw sessions in Copenhagen, Belfast, Cork, Edinburgh, Glasgow, Paris.

I have set dates for a return to Ireland already. 1 to 8 February. Several HS sessions are already booked up so if you’re interested contact me ASAP. I am also considering which other locations to visit. 

I spent lots of time in the dungeon, mostly the amazing Peacock Parlour, with Max and Flower and some fabulous new and regular clients. I was lucky enough to have a number of longer sessions which I truly relish. I never run out of ideas and time never drags. 

Scarlett’s flower started working toward ownership. Lots of ups and downs there but she has persevered. Things are going to get harder and I will be more demanding in 2019.

That stands for everyone coming to session with me. The end of 2018 saw me develop a more steely determination to achieve goals and drive forward. Max is definitely going to be in trouble. 

So what does 2019 hold. Lots and lots more scat. I’ve done a lot of online sessions lately which are great fun but feeding more hungry mouths is my goal. My shitster and I are offering special double HS sessions in Jan. £300 for one hour which is an unmissable opportunity. 

Max faces lots more anal annihilation, longer more taxing sessions where he gets pushed, significant enforced feminisation and forced bi including a trip to Hardon. He will hate all of this but love his deepening submission and my growing control. 

Flower faces continued chastity and orgasm denial, further anal training and forced bi. Not to mention more stringent requirements as she works toward ownership. 

I hope to tour new places and meet and reconnect with a number of other fabulous Dommes. I would love to have less timewaster’s this year and am looking forward to catching up with a number of clients and welcoming new ones. 

I will also be celebrating an important birthday this year. All year. So don’t hesitate to send gifts etc 🙂 

Happy New Year everyone. 

Testimonial – BJ

My session with Lady Scarlett was exceptional. Mistress was approachable / friendly and we spent some time discussing the specifics of the session, what equipment would be used, hard limits, and other information relating to the session. This for me is really important ; it’s not a question of the Slave “topping from the bottom” but a genuine consideration from Mistress that the session addressed wider goals.

We started with Anal work, with fingers, dildo and Strapon used to gently increase the commitment. This is no joke, but the anal performed was seriously the best that I have ever experienced, in terms of the degree of consideration / understanding that was applied and the targeting of specific zones to maximise pleasure. It was completely mind-blowing…!

We finished with some intimate body worship and mistress provided a very enjoyable perspective for me to serve..!

Throughout the session I was intoxicated with Poppers and Nitrous, which was carefully monitored to keep me in the zone to serve mistress and keeping me compliant and open to her whims.

We are discussing meeting again very soon for a full Hardsports session. If this is anything like the session that we had today, it will be out of this world …!

Testimonial – A

“Getting the opportunity to visit Lady Scarlett has been an incredible experience – easily one of the most thrilling of my young life. As soon as I made initial contact with her via email I was struck by her politeness, professional manner and eagerness to meet. Naturally feeling shy by communicating with such a powerful, confident woman I requested a pre-session conversation where we would discuss my previous experience, preferences and generally get to know one another. I would highly recommend this to anyone who is remotely nervous about seeing Lady Scarlett as she puts you at ease so effortlessly and quickly.

Having agreed a time and date, we met at The Peacock Parlour – an incredibly equipped dungeon in a lovely, relaxed area of London. I was greeted by Lady Scarlett as soon as I entered her lair with her favourite Lanson Black Label Champagne and she was amazing with me from the get-go. I felt like she really listened to what I had to say while at the same time made it very clear that she was the boss and that I was going to be her play-thing for 90 minutes. Our session comprised of a seductive, kidnap role-play scenario which involved lots of duct tape, leather and rope. Photographs were also taken to reinforce her dominance before I was pegged and made to worship Lady Scarlett’s strap-on.

Our time together slightly over-ran but this did not seem to bother her one bit which did not go unnoticed. As soon as our session ended I was treated to a shower and a comforting chat about how our meeting went. Lady Scarlett also went to the bother of checking up on me the next day to make sure that I was doing okay which was another nice surprise.

If you are looking for a beautiful, domineering, friendly, kind and seductive Mistress to guide you through your BDSM desires you certainly won’t be disappointed with Lady Scarlett!”

Testimonial – slave w

Its hard to describe just what an experience it is to visit Lady Scarlett. It feels almost futile, and I would say just pluck up the courage and go and see her, however thats a bit unfair so I will attempt to describe ho amazing a session with her is.

The first thing you will notice from Lady Scarlett is how kind she is when you first meet her (warning: enjoy this whilst you can, it will change.). As in her email exchanges she was polite and courteous, and very interested to know my kink history and experiences, especially as in my session I wanted to push boundaries in regards to kinks i had explored with other Mistresses. There was no rush to this, and though still obiously feeling due to what was to come, I felt much more at ease after being able to talk so candidly about any fetishes I had, with somebody who showed a genuine interest in me and my experiences with them. It also helps that Lady Scarlett has one of the most amazing voices, which really comes into its own once in session, she just has a way of speaking that instantly disarms you and makes you feel like the inferior that you are. You really do feel genuinely helpless when Lady Scarlett wants you to, and she ALWAYS pays attention to what you say, NEVER say anything and dont expect it to be used against you, im still suffering to this day with it, and despite knowing this am still getting myself in to trouble. (This is why her disarming voice, and charming personality are so dangerous!)

I wont go into the sessions we have shared specifically, but its safe to say they have all been intense from the get go. Lady Scarlett is skilled at mindgames, putting you in whatever position she wants you to be; whether that be calm and completely in her thrall, or nervous and on edge, wondering what she is going to do next and psychologically at her mercy. Mistress pushed me to do things I had worried about doing previously, and never achieved, yet under her tutelage I have pushed through and gone further with it than i thought I could, yet she is never happy with that. Already as soon as I broke through one self created limit, Mistress has her sights set on breaking through others. Indeed, I am now questioning even my hardest of limits, because I trust that she will know when I am at the stage that I can break through these, and I want to give them to her, I want to give every piece of me to her.

To end with then all i can say is this. If you want a genuinely wondeful, kind, thoughtful Mistress, who when its time to session will take over your mind, bend you to her will, take you to places you never thought you could go, and change you permanently for the better, you owe it to yourself to visit Lady Scarlett. Then you too can experience the feeling of walking out of her chambers, and into the sun, drunk on submission.

Testimonial – slave G

I must confess that Lady Scarlett is definitely one of the most attentive mistress that I have ever met. Our initial conversations prior to our session together really gave me a chance to express what kind of interests I had and what my limits were. It also gave me a chance to express a deep fantasy that I have had for a long time. Little did I know that Lady Scarlett was taking great interest in everything that I had to say. She well and truly catered the session to my (and her) likes and sprung my fantasy on me towards the end of the session when she truly fried my cock with electrics disregarding my cries for her to stop!

I highly recommend this skilled, versatile and playful mistress to anyone who is considering a session with her. She is sublime!

Testimonial – Andrew

Deferred gratification, not something I have ever been that adept at. Some can make their Christmas chocolate last until Easter looms. Mine never lasted to see the new year. But I have had to learn to be a little patient in spending time in the company of the very lovely Lady Scarlett.

When I first approached her about a session in early April that with all the hurdles I had in between we wouldn’t be able to actually get together until May. This seemed a drag, but turned out to have its own silver lining, as I spent much time in the interim dreaming sweet dreams about what might come to pass.

So, by the time today came around I had played just about every possible scenario round and round in my head a dozen times and was vibrating with anticipation. Our session was to be in the new but increasingly cult venue, the Peacock Parlour in North London. The instruction ‘to go through the blue gate and then call me’ had a pleasingly mysterious air to it. What’s behind the blue gate? Through a grey door then down a long corridor to the end, and through an open door, into the Parlour, where my Lady was waiting. I had stepped out of London into another place entirely.

The internet is a wonderful thing and allows us to know a little more of the person before the session. However, I have found that the person one meets for real is always a little different from the image one has projected on them. Lady Scarlett’s strong, sensual curvy body, dressed in black was as the pictures told me. But along with this came a smile that sparkled, and smile of delight and a sense of humour that showcased both wit and sadism.

As I said to her, it took me a long time to get over myself and accept the kinky man that I am but having made that journey I have thoroughly enjoyed exploring different aspects of my fetishes. What I was looking for with Lady Scarlett, and she had with great enthusiasm agreed to, was bringing two strands together.

Underpinning all of this was of course the joy of submission, placing myself in this woman’s strong and clever hands. I have had some lovely sensual sessions, and some equally thrilling CP/Disciplinary sessions. Today I wanted to bring both strands together, in a session that would start as disciplinary role play, moving into something more sensual, if exquisitely humiliating.

She is waiting for me in the dungeon space. The moment when weeks of fantasy and mental images becomes a reality. This is the trapeze artist moment of any first session between a sub and Domme. One can read a menu of delights, and as Claire Black once noted ‘get carried away with the pretty pictures.’ But this is the moment of truth, does this thing fly, or remain earth bound. There is a sweet spot, one wants one’s desires and dreams realised, but also one want spontinaity and surprise, and above all one wants it to flow, to wash one along on a beautiful wave. Oh, Lady Scarlett I place myself in your hands.

The moment she comes towards me, and speaks I know it’s going to be great. She exudes the natural confidence of somebody who knows who they are and knows that they are fabulous. Her voice, scolding pulls me into my fantasy space. In no time I am naked before her, as scolds and casts a sharply critical eye over me. I love verbal humiliation, especially in a nice domestic discipline setting and Lady Scarlett’s tongue was plenty sharp enough.

Bent over for a spanking, oh god I love to be spanked, between her body comes close, her warm breath on my cheek, scolding, mocking. My body, my tiny inadequate cock, my disgust desires all pulled apart. And then oh, yes, the thing I asked for but…. To have been as kinky as I am, and to have reached the age I have without experiencing arse play is probably some kind of achievement. I have experimented with figging (oh lordy, what an experience that was) but never been plugged up. Now bent over ‘hold your arse cheeks apart’ she orders. ‘My you do have a tight little arsehole.’ And then she slides it home. Wow, oh yes. ‘Don’t you dare let it come out!’ This warning hangs over the rest of our session.

I am bent over a spanking frame, my plugged arse on display and she spanks me, and derides what remains of my macho pride. And there is nowhere in the world I would rather be, she has brought me perfectly into her world. ‘Don’t you dare let it come out.’

And then the watershed, a wonderful pause to reflect in the corner, and we move from discipline to beautiful sensual submission. My bottom is spanked again, but now lying face down on the bed, I can feel her presence, then her body is on me, I can feel her lying on top of me, her voice like honey and spice. She feels so sensual and just so powerful. This isn’t a game or role play, this feels real, my emotions are real, rising in me. And then a wonderful gift and a reminder of who is in charge, and how she can enjoy my frailty. Her face close to mine, ‘With that tiny cock you are going to have to learn to use our hands and you tongue, such a pretty mouth, can you imagine it sucking cock?’ She continues, ‘If I told you to, would you do it for me?’ Her face so close to me, her warmth so near to me.

‘Have you been good enough to worship my bottom? Beg for it, beg more.’ And then my dreams are realised, she kneels and rolls down her fishnets and knickers to reveal a truly wonderful bottom and alter at which I could worship forever. I bury my face between her cheeks, my tongue reaching for that sweet hole. It is hard to escape cliché as a describe what I felt in that moment. And I could see, beautifully pierced the thing that I would so love to have kissed and sucked but will never be allowed to do, the arsehole is my place in life, that is the hole I get to serve.

‘Do you expect to come.’ ‘If you wish it.’ ‘You can come, but you have to cum in your sock, and I will laugh thinking about you going home with you sock covered in cum.’ Maybe this moment sums up the glory of this session, Lady Scarlett’s dominance, sensuality and evil humour all coming together in that moment.
Thank you.

The Peacock Parlour

You may have seen from Twitter posts that I have moved dungeon location. Since mid January I have been based in the fabulous new dungeon, opened by Sir Claire Black, called The Peacock Parlour.

Although there are still some works in progress it’s already a great play space. Plenty of room yet still intimate. Not at all your your stereotypical dungeon space. This is more opulent and welcoming. Decorated in Peacock hues of colour with gothic hints and subtle lighting.

The Parlour is well equipped with bondage bed, cage, suspension points, spanking bench which transfers into a gynae chair type set up, bondage table, stocks and much more. Plus all the implements you could need for all types of session. There’s plenty of room to swing a cat, and a whip. More room means more opportunity to indulge in different types of play. My new fucking machine can be put to good use as can other fun items such as my leather sleep sack.

There’s a huge mirror on one wall where you can watch yourself being plundered by my cock or taking the strokes of my cane. Imagine watching yourself fellate my strapon or see yourself being tightly bound, imagining what nefarious plans I might have for you.

There’s a comfy sofa area where we can have a pre and post session chat or I can recline comfortably while you worship my feet. There’s a small kitchenette for domestic chores and if you perform well I might allow you to make me a nice cup of tea. I certainly don’t do tea making.

There’s also a nice shower space for you to take a hot shower or cold depending upon the scene. Maybe I will hustle you into the bathroom and shave your hair off before deeming you fit for purpose.

Overnight sessions are available where you can be caged and I can have a fabulous night’s sleep in a comfy bed. Or I can put you through your paces. Maybe wake you up at 2am with a jolt of electrics or a glass of cold water thrown on you.

The Parlour’s new website is now up and running:

http://peacockparlour.co.uk

You can follow developments on Twitter @peacockparlour

There is also a wishlist if you want to contribute to the improvement and development of this great space:

Peacock Parlour Wishlist

Come and see how fabulous this space is. Book your session now.