I’d tried a few times to arrange a session with Lady Scarlett over the Christmas period but was caught out with work schedules. I’d paid a deposit as all genuine bookings should and although rightfully frustrated at not being able to paint her sadism on a fresh canvas she was understanding and patient. The door was left ajar.
Having not sessioned with a Domme for 9 years or so I was determined to choose the right one to dip my toes back into the swirl. It didn’t take me long for as soon as I saw her website and read a few entries on her Twitter feed I was struck by the sense of soul. I mean the term ‘soul’ as a depth of appreciation for what and why we are drawn into these waters, both as Dominant and submissive.
I have always kept an eye on the evolution of BDSM within our culture and within the past few years it has appeared cloudy. The rise of the bedroom findoms, fifty shades of grey and its steady trajectory into the mainstream amongst other things. Some Dommes redefine the art and Lady Scarlett is certainly one of those Dommes.
I won’t elaborate too much on my first session which was breathtaking to say the least but I will say this. The overiding feeling of being empowered on so many levels did not leave my conciousness for days on end. The whole experience has enriched my thinking. It is with precious hindsight though that the most revealing and telling aspect of the session happened as soon as I sat down for a chat with Lady Scarlett.
In those first 5 minutes the scene was set. Lady Scarlett told me how things would be without spelling it out. It wasn’t a lecture or a manifesto. It hit me a few hours later. In effect the initial conversation effortlessly lay out the parameters of her control which when under her whims seem endless but are hers.
Whether she is whispering softly in your ear whilst pushing your thresholds or laughing at your discomfort, you have been told. There is no other option once you choose to submit to this Lady.
A gorgeously cruel soulful Domme.
I had a fantastic first session with Lady Scarlett. We exchanged emails about what the session could involve, and despite the testimonials and Her reassuring social media presence, I was nervous. From the off I was put at ease; LS is is clearly into what She does, She is authentic, empathetic, intuitive, calm, and very very kinked. I was at ease very quickly, and we began….
As the scene unfolded I felt the familiar nerves build as we approached time for anal play – recent experiences have not been good, and I have had to call a halt as it was painful. LS took the time to warm me up, and when She was inside me, it was just as it should be – amazing, and painless. Having said that, I am sure She would make it uncomfortable if that is what was required for a session. It is probably worth mentioning that at this point I had a shit covered gusset over my nose, and a shit covered finger in my mouth, so I was already very very aroused! Her eyes locked on mine as She fucked me, and I could see that She was in the moment with me, which makes all the difference.
When I left the dungeon I had that floaty feeling that comes from being fucked and used by someone who gets your kinks and cares about sharing something special with Her clients. LS makes a real connection, and there are no airs and graces – just a genuine Domme who loves what She does and does it with flair and artistry!
If you are a complete newbie like i was and are looking to start your journey in to this world then I can not recommended Lady Scarlett highly enough. She is an absolute professional, putting any anxiety or nerves you may have at ease and thus allowing you to fully enjoy your time together.
From the moment I contacted her with my idea of a role play and what activities I would like to try, to the end of the session where we sat down and she talked to me about what feelings i might experience in the coming hours or days, it was nothing but wonderful. A lady of her word she also contacted me the next day to check up on how I was feeling.
The only down side was that two hours seemed to race by all to quickly and I would have loved to have stayed longer.
Let Lady Scarlett take your hand and lead you in to that place you fantasize about and trust me you will not regret a second.
I have had the privilege to serve a number of Mistresses over the years, usually just 1 or sometimes 2 a year, and I have enjoyed just about all the sessions, but I have rarely returned to the same Mistress, mainly to give me different experiences.
Why, I ask myself, is it that I have had three sessions with the wonderful Lady Scarlett in the space of just eight weeks – and a fourth planned for next month?
Firstly, from our email exchanges I quickly realised that she was not a traditional Domme. To start with there was a clear softer side, apparent when I explained that following joint replacement surgery I was not very agile – some Dommes do not want to know – but Lady Scarlett simply said “no problem we work round it”.
It has meant that we have been able to concentrate on pleasures we both have. In each session, Lady Scarlett’s innovations have managed to take me further and further past my perceived limits.
What also distinguishes Lady Scarlett from many other Dommes is that she loves what she does, has a great, but evil, sense of humour, with a delicious but devilish smile and laughter, and it is all fun for her.
She wants you to have fun too, of course, but it is clear that she is very much in charge. She also clearly wants her clients to return, as, unlike any other Mistress I have known, Lady Scarlett encourages keeping in touch via email or text.
I would describe her as a smart, stylish, sophisticated, sexy, sensuous, seductive, savvy, sassy and sadistic siren!!
As she has said, herself, on Twitter, she has beauty, brains and an extremely warped, filthy and perverted mind. Just what a slave needs in his Mistress. She is, however, also a lovely Lady, just the sort of girl you would like to take home to meet mother (just don’t tell mother what she does for a living).
She does not clock watch either as our first session went on for maybe 15 minutes over and then we had a post session chat. I asked Lady Scarlett if she would allow me to take her to lunch after a future session. I was delighted that Lady Scarlett agreed, and we did so following our third session. Over a long and relaxed lunch I was able to confirm what I had already deduced, that Lady Scarlett is really nice and great company.
My search for my perfect Mistress is over. It is just a shame I did not discover Lady Scarlett sooner.
Lady Scarlett is a lovely, open minded and adventurous Mistress who is great fun to be with. She clearly loves what she does and a session with her is like being with a kinky girlfriend as much as a professional domme.
To date I’ve had two excellent sessions with Lady Scarlett and I look forward to many more. Fetish and kink aside, we also discovered that we had a shared interest in the theatre so I was delighted and honoured that she accepted my invitation to join me to see a play.
Visiting a new Mistress for the first time can be a daunting and nerve-wracking experience:
You’ve looked at the website and maybe even her twitter feed………. she looks genuine, but there is always trepidation and often well founded!
Fortunately Lady Scarlett is absolutely the real thing. From initial email contact I found her to be utterly professional but in no way aloof.
I shall not go into detail as to our session activities, but all I can say is it was a rather exhilarating 90 minutes that I won’t forget in a hurry!
Post session, words I would use to describe Lady Scarlett would be, lovely, compassionate, sensuous, cruel, very attractive and no doubt as sadistic as any sane man
could ever wish for if requested.
What more could you want in a Mistress?
Think no more about it and book her, but just be careful what you wish for.
Not often you meet someone so in-tune with your kinks, but that’s Lady Scarlett; inauspicious beginnings, a normal session enquiry on the back of her twitter feed, at first glance same old same old, but then you suddenly as your framing the session you realise this is something out of the ordinary.
Firstly, as has been mentioned, she has an evil sense of humour both in and out of sessions, and her style reflects that this is her, not a characterture, totally real; total serious about her enjoyment; truly respectful of the people she plays with and, at least with my kinks, empathetic in the extreme. Reading both her posts and her friends & subs, it’s clear that those who know her also see this in her.
One of the other things that strikes me, is her natural position is to expect that people are as honest and trustworthy as she is; seeing and expecting the best in people is truly inspiring and not something to be undervalued.
Like some I have goals from our play, due to experience, you always feel hesitant to share them until a level of trust has been established (egos are such fragile things), nevertheless, it felt appropriate to share and the journey started. I have done three major sessions and “a let’s have some fun session”, and the major sessions have always gone further towards the goals with no signs of abating; and while its not been easy, Lady Scarlett is clearly committed to making it happen and gives a whole new meaning to the Sooty and Sweep show as well as clearly missing her calling as a phlebotomist.
As this is for her website, one final comment. If your serious about your kinks and you want to play with someone who is serious about her kinks, you really should play with Lady Scarlett, its an experience that you won’t forget, and you may well realise how ‘false’ some of your previous play partners have been.
After a couple of weeks of umming and arrrring, I finally plucked up the courage and booked a session with Lady Scarlett. Any fears and doubts I had were erased as soon as I met her, she is very easy to talk to and I felt completely at ease the moment I walked through the door.
I had requested a 2 hour bondage session and that was exactly what I got. Lady Scarlet is quite expert in this area, it was secure and at no point was I in discomfort (well anymore than I needed to be). Lady Scarlett’s repartee during the session was fantastic as well, little comments and giggles really did enhance the whole experience.
One of the key points of the session was I wanted to have a feeling of total helplessness, and boy did that happen. I was tied in a standing position, feet and knees together with wrists tied, first in front of me then pulled up and over my head, they were then secured to the harness around my body, which in turn was connected to the ceiling. A blindfold was added, it was this feeling of exposure that I had never had before. Lady Scarlett was able to circle my body like a shark stalking its prey, letting of little giggles of delight at my situation as she tweaked and slapped parts of my body.
I can not speak more highly of Lady Scarlett, it was an amazing experience, so glad I booked, and so glad it was booked with Lady Scarlett.
Dear Lady Scarlett
I would like to take this opportunity to thank you for a wonderful session on Saturday. I thoroughly enjoyed our time together, which was exhilarating and exciting with a nice blend of pain and pleasure. I look forward to our next session together.
Your loving Slave